This is a note to myself: stop complaining. Stop wallowing in self pity and trying to get others to feel sorry for you. It won’t work, take responsibility for things and accept them as they are. More people will be drawn to you if you exude an aura of self-confidence, self-acceptance, positivity, and make the best of things. How will you do this? These are not actionable, per say, based on what I’ve been reading Atomic Habit and Tiny Habits. Changing you mindset and your action requires 2 things, awareness of what you’re doing and specific action to take. Telling someone (even myself) to stop complaining isn’t helpful because everyone complains, and there’s much to complain about. Rather be specific in the area to stop complaining and then be specific in the action to take. It might start small, but it will eventually bleed into the other areas of your life.